The Magic of ‘I Like You’
Mismatched Lust Between the Sexes
Strategic Phone Etiquette in Dating
Is She Just Paranoid or Is She Getting Played?
Social Proof: What It Is – and Isn’t
Punk’d on Tinder
A College Girl Gets Played and Shares What She Learned
Assortative Mating is Here to Stay
John May 31, 2012 at 2:28 pm Reply
I would like to add one other point about the gender war or gender bashing... Unhealthy criticism in this regard is basically a failure of both parties to understand significant differences and the needs they entail. To criticize women because they are not like men or the other way around, really is gendercentric. It is presupposing that one gender is the center of the universe and that all relevant data should conform to this idealistic gender. We should rather learn to appreciate each gender for what they bring to the table of the relationship. A woman is like a thermometer while a man is like a thermostat. Yes there are similarities but significant differences. One is not worse than the other simply because it does not do or bahave consistent with the other. Women, generally get a reading from a man, while the man sets the temperature. A man expecting her to regulate the temperature is a failure on his part to be a man... man up! Now when a woman gets a significantly good reading from a man she will become very responsive and oftentimes very proactive, simply because such men are extremely rare in our world.
Josh June 19, 2012 at 7:30 pm Reply
Just to clarify for some, women may expect the same freedoms as men but that doesn't mean you can ignore the biological implications of promiscuity in women. Women are, in a scientific and evolutionary sense, supposed to be less interested in sex than men. i.e, if you get around to the same extent men do you can almost definitely consider yourself slutty
The Mysterian September 15, 2012 at 7:09 pm Reply
To me it is sexy for a woman to have had a lot of partners. It would make her sexier in my eyes, and I would not hold it against her in terms of contemplating a serious relationship. Wanton is good! :)
Men September 20, 2012 at 2:31 am Reply
Mismatched Lust Between the Sexes
Strategic Phone Etiquette in Dating
Is She Just Paranoid or Is She Getting Played?
Social Proof: What It Is – and Isn’t
Punk’d on Tinder
A College Girl Gets Played and Shares What She Learned
Assortative Mating is Here to Stay
John May 31, 2012 at 2:28 pm Reply
I would like to add one other point about the gender war or gender bashing... Unhealthy criticism in this regard is basically a failure of both parties to understand significant differences and the needs they entail. To criticize women because they are not like men or the other way around, really is gendercentric. It is presupposing that one gender is the center of the universe and that all relevant data should conform to this idealistic gender. We should rather learn to appreciate each gender for what they bring to the table of the relationship. A woman is like a thermometer while a man is like a thermostat. Yes there are similarities but significant differences. One is not worse than the other simply because it does not do or bahave consistent with the other. Women, generally get a reading from a man, while the man sets the temperature. A man expecting her to regulate the temperature is a failure on his part to be a man... man up! Now when a woman gets a significantly good reading from a man she will become very responsive and oftentimes very proactive, simply because such men are extremely rare in our world.
Josh June 19, 2012 at 7:30 pm Reply
Just to clarify for some, women may expect the same freedoms as men but that doesn't mean you can ignore the biological implications of promiscuity in women. Women are, in a scientific and evolutionary sense, supposed to be less interested in sex than men. i.e, if you get around to the same extent men do you can almost definitely consider yourself slutty
The Mysterian September 15, 2012 at 7:09 pm Reply
To me it is sexy for a woman to have had a lot of partners. It would make her sexier in my eyes, and I would not hold it against her in terms of contemplating a serious relationship. Wanton is good! :)
Men September 20, 2012 at 2:31 am Reply