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That was a big concern of mine, but she and I have had lengthy discussions on that point, and I’m honestly not worried.
my point is this, we have to face facts that just as men love a challenge, women do too. and some women equate an asshole as a challenge. kinda like ” if i can get this arrogant asshole who only has room in his life for himself to pay attention to me, THEN i must be worth something ! i must be special !” . what is happening now in young men is that they see this behavior in women and think, I MUST BE AND ASSHOLE TOO ! what we need to teach young men, is the truth…love is not supposed to be boring.. so be a challenge. the problem with “nice” guys is that… the girl already knows what the end game is…”if i want as, a girl, i can let him fuck me” where is the damn adventure ?
returning to my story, so for the first few weeks of my drinking binge, i just wanted to suffer alone, so being a nice guy..i just went to bars to drink and not be alone. so no where in my mind was i thinking “OHH lets see if i can go home with that one !”..what happened? after a while of going to the same bars, girls just started noticing me..why ? i was a challenge..sociable guy, has a job, drinks, flirts….but never shows genuine interest in a specific girl… of course what these girls did not know is i left the bar to buy a bottle of bourbon before last call so i could go home and drink… but i was a challenge..nothing of my nice guy persona had been changed. now how do you become a challnege..who knows….
A woman who cheats (or lies by omission) would not be high on my list of people I trust. And, personally, I much prefer to get involved (either sexually or relationship-wise) with people I trust. So even though your asshole-ish ways landed you the woman, you’re with a woman who lies.
Falkenberg -
I don’t understand the too little too late bit. Can you elaborate?
We Need a Vaccine Against Narcissism
Relationship Advice to My Young Self
How to Destroy a Relationship
The Indispensability of Fathers
The Endurance of Courtship
20 Ways to Read a Man Through His Eyes
The Fight of Your Life
That was a big concern of mine, but she and I have had lengthy discussions on that point, and I’m honestly not worried.
- 56 batman October 22, 2011 at 4:21 pm
my point is this, we have to face facts that just as men love a challenge, women do too. and some women equate an asshole as a challenge. kinda like ” if i can get this arrogant asshole who only has room in his life for himself to pay attention to me, THEN i must be worth something ! i must be special !” . what is happening now in young men is that they see this behavior in women and think, I MUST BE AND ASSHOLE TOO ! what we need to teach young men, is the truth…love is not supposed to be boring.. so be a challenge. the problem with “nice” guys is that… the girl already knows what the end game is…”if i want as, a girl, i can let him fuck me” where is the damn adventure ?
returning to my story, so for the first few weeks of my drinking binge, i just wanted to suffer alone, so being a nice guy..i just went to bars to drink and not be alone. so no where in my mind was i thinking “OHH lets see if i can go home with that one !”..what happened? after a while of going to the same bars, girls just started noticing me..why ? i was a challenge..sociable guy, has a job, drinks, flirts….but never shows genuine interest in a specific girl… of course what these girls did not know is i left the bar to buy a bottle of bourbon before last call so i could go home and drink… but i was a challenge..nothing of my nice guy persona had been changed. now how do you become a challnege..who knows….
- 57 Heidi October 22, 2011 at 4:31 pm
A woman who cheats (or lies by omission) would not be high on my list of people I trust. And, personally, I much prefer to get involved (either sexually or relationship-wise) with people I trust. So even though your asshole-ish ways landed you the woman, you’re with a woman who lies.
Falkenberg -
I don’t understand the too little too late bit. Can you elaborate?