FloodCRM

ps i 100% agree with your point about arguments and temper loss

@rum
you are not totally right about the ‘hotties’. if a guy gets a good reputation about his bedroom skills he gets to pick the girls. looks are an advantage of course but good press makes you a LOT more attractive. (it works the other way around too- if a good looking guy gets bad ‘press’ with girls his attractivness plummetts)

however with men, looks are paramount- I have seldom heard of a girl being known to be great in bed other than ‘being a bit freaky’. im not sure girls even want to be known to be good in bed gnerally speaking.

@all

i really must call time on this assertion that feminists deny biology. its nonsense.
many feminists have for decades decried the effect of a ceetian male chmeical on socirty- testosterone. the diferences between males and females is a corner stone of feminist theory.
evidence such as 99% of sex crimes being doen by men and 90% of violent crimes done by men is hard to argue with.
orgasms are diffferent for both sexes sure but there are plenty of similarites and arise from identical tissues. And anthropogists are suggesting that females are naturally more promiscuious than males!! go look it up….. so i think that needs to be understood better by the posters here

Citizen Gatorade says:
August 12, 2010 at 11:55 pm
” It’s very difficult for women to comprehend that a man will make moves, while secretly hoping you’ll not allow it.”

I think you hit on something here. It’s also very difficult for men to comprehend that a woman will pretend to “not allow it”, while secretly hoping that he keeps on pushing the envelope, eventually overwhelming and seducing her into a wild passion, so swept away that she could not resist.

So we have to look at the subconcious motivators behind the odd behaviour of both.

It seems men make moves hoping women will resist, and then stop when they do, because they are subconsciously hoping she is “the one”.