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One was your arch-typical girl next door, brightly colored, skinny, very cute, goldilocks hair. Guys were just coming after her once they started playing basketball (we were at the arcade).

Friend in the dark-goth clothing…got nothing…she just didn’t have anything in her that said “approach me,” especially not with her friend outshining her. But in terms of LTR-potential? I doubt the disparity between the two was actually THAT big.

But you don’t catch that at a glance.

17J April 15, 2013 at 1:07 pm
Just curious. Why do the highest SMV girls overwhelmingly swim in this pond? Unless you crush on female athletes, if you are looking for physically impressive women, here is where you will find them.

I don’t think so. These are just the girls who are willing to show off all they’ve got. Many of the restricted girls are objectively as good or better looking, but don’t lead with it because they don’t want that sort of attention. (I say this as someone who skillfully camouflaged a rather impressive rack all though college because I like men to look me in the eyes when I talk.)

18J April 15, 2013 at 1:11 pm
Friend in the dark-goth clothing…got nothing…she just didn’t have anything in her that said “approach me,” especially not with her friend outshining her.

I’m gonna guess that, given her choice of outfit, she had just given up.

19A Definite Beta Guy April 15, 2013 at 1:27 pm
I am probably giving a bad impression. She wasn’t actually identifiably “goth.” Hard time describing it…she just wore darker colors, black with dark blue jeans and a subdued necklace. She had some makeup on, her face was extremely pale. But she was still moderately dressed up, didn’t give the impression of having totally given up.

She didn’t really hold a candle to her friend, though. Unfortunate for her. I have no reason to think that she isn’t anything other than nice. Her friend was quite beaming after walking away from all that male attention, though. ;)

I told my friend that he should give it a shot. Who cares? What’s the worst that could happen? We’re VIPs at the place, as embarassing as it is to admit. They’ll never kick us out. Even if we do get “creepy,” not a thing is going to happen to us.